Finally, it is your time. You are a guy who is tired of his lame dating history and spending long, lonely, boring nights watching bad television – always alone. Instead of standing still, you have taken the bull by the horns and made positive, dramatic changes in your life – in ways that you hope will make yourself more attractive to women, both inside and out.
Your dating profile has been set up in such a way that accurately expresses the real you, and always in a way that is designed to attract women. It is funny, witty and charming, and when women read your essays, they tend to think something like, “I’d like to know more about him.” Moreover, when they see your stylish photos they think, “He’s cute,” or “I really like his eyes.” In other words, your profile gives you the advantage of depicting a guy who is deemed by women as highly date-able.
So it follows you have began the search for women to date, and in so doing have listened to advice concerning reasonable profile searches that aid you in discerning the psychos, gold diggers, frauds and desperadoes. And you have wisely shied away from them – or blocked them – or threatened a restraining order (whatever it takes!) Finally, you are ready to meet someone and you believe you have found just the right person. For all the crucial steps in the process of transforming yourself into a date-able man, this next step is by far the most important.
The first personal contact with a woman will elicit one of several possible responses: she may be completely turned off, indifferent or conclude you might be worth meeting. Some dating sites have winks or flirts or some form of mutual match function that clues her in on your interest. Sometimes these ploys work; most of the time they do not. No matter, they are always a poor substitute for a well written email.
Women appreciate quality emails from men because they are a crucial component of the getting to know you process. Whether it is intended or not, a message reveals or confirms information about a guy that aids in the determination of his date-ability. Over the next few articles, we will discuss how to write high quality emails that help a guy give a really great first impression, and consequently get his foot in the door to meet the woman or women he desires to date. We will also go over the dreadfully bad habits and practices that doom men to instant rejection and subsequent lonely nights. Please stay tuned.
